Have you
ever given someone advice they didn't listen to or instructions on how to
accomplish a task they simply chose to ignore only to later watch them become
frustrated because things didn't turn out as expected?
A short
while back as I listened to a loved one tell me about a situation they were
experiencing and the associated frustrations, I thought to myself, “If you would only listen to me.”
Usually
when we give advice it’s because we consider ourselves knowledgeable on the
subject. This is typically a result of prior experience in the area. Although sometimes
it’s simply because we think we know everything and others should just listen
to us. (This is never me of course.)
In this
particular case, I considered myself better versed on the topic. I felt I had
something beneficial to offer. I felt like I could see aspects of the situation
that were not so obvious to them. I wanted to avoid continual negative results
for this person I cared about. But I knew they’d have none of it.
I
thought: “If you would just listen to me, things could be so much easier for
you.”
As I
thought about that another thought came to mind:
“I bet
this is what God thinks about me ALL
THE TIME!”
I,
myself, am guilty far too often of trying to do things my way. When I do, rarely
do these things result the way I “planned.”
This
really made me reflect and come to the following realization; GOD KNOWS WHAT HE’S DOING!
He
really does.
If He
wants me to trust him, it’s because he has it worked out. He sees things that I
don’t see. He has experience that I don’t have. He knows things that I don’t
know.
If I
would only LISTEN.
If I
would only TRUST and OBEY, my life would be a lot less difficult.
I’d probably
be a lot happier as well.
How much
pain, how much frustration, how much failure, how much sadness, how much grief,
how much confusion could I have avoided?
How much
time could I have saved?
How much
more peace and happiness could I have experienced?
If I would just listen.
Now, if
I can just remember this for the future…